about us

we are self & more

And we believe that everybody deserves to experience pleasure without shame or judgement.
We’re a female-owned, online sex toy shop based in London, UK.

toys are for bodies, not genders

We don’t categorise our toys by gender because we believe that you should be able to make the decision about what’s right for your body (plus inanimate objects don’t have genders). Rather than dictate what toys are for you, we give you the information needed to make your own choice.

Buy toys + support charitable causes

We donate 5% of our profits to a rotating selection of charities on a twice yearly basis.

we're proud wankers

Masturbation can be many things: self-care, self-exploration, stress-relief, pure pleasure. But it’s never shameful. We wear our wanker flag loud & proud. While many sex toy shops are focussed on partnered play, we’re all about figuring out what gives you pleasure and then using that knowledge to have a more satisfying sex life all round.

founded by poppy scarlett

Poppy launched Self & More because she was frustrated by the way that many sex toy shops view pleasure through the male gaze. She figured that if she was left wanting more from the sexual wellness industry, the chances are that other people are too. 

You can find her on Instagram and YouTube.

pleasure education

We’re all about helping you to understand your body and what gives you pleasure. When it comes to sex, so many of us wonder ‘am I normal?’. We’re here to tell you that yes! You are perfectly normal and not alone in your experiences.

Free uk delivery

When you spend £40

Discreet shipping

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Chat to us at: info@selfandmore.com


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