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Christmas gifting guide

Words: Poppy Lepora

Illustration: Meg Murgatroyd 

Obviously we’re biased, but we’re big believers that sex toys can make gorgeous and personal gifts. If you’re thinking of getting a lover or pal something sexy from our store (lucky them!) then read on for our top gift recommendations. 

For the eco-conscious one

Gaia Biodegradable Eco Bullet 

Perfect for the eco-babe in your life, the Gaia range are the world’s first compostable vibrators. This bullet is the perfect first-toy for those who are new to vibrators. 

For the party goer or the avid dater

Crave Vesper Vibrator Necklace 

This discreet vibrator can be worn in plain sight. Vesper is a shining example of design meeting pleasure in a shiny package. This is the ideal gift for someone who has great taste and boldly claims their sexuality. Ideal for wearing on dates or attending sensual parties (let's hope those can return some time soon!). 


For first time toy owners

Self & More GIft Sets

This year we’ve curated a selection of gift boxes to take the hard work out of gift-buying. The toughest decision you’ll have to face will be which set to go for. 

Our Best Sellers & More Box has all the biggest hits from our store, including the infamous Satisfyer Pro 2. It’s an instant enviable toy collection in a box.

First Base & More is the ideal affordable gift for someone who has never tried toys before. We also have sets for people with penises and sets for booty play.

For the person who already has all the toys

Self & More Wanker Tee

Our wanker tee is a glorious way to announce your proud wanker status to the world (they’re basically uniform here at Self & More HQ).

Made from organic cotton and printed to order for us in London by anti-fast fashion company HIT + RUN, it’s an ethical choice and you’ll be supporting two small businesses in the process. Win-win!


For the one who’s hard to please

Self & More Gift Card

The ideal gift for a person who has it all. Let them take their pick from our entire site. Choose your amount and the gift card will be emailed straight to you.

For the kinky one

Megami Choker + Self-Tie Harness by Figure of A

We <3 this set by Figure of A. You can choose to wear the choker alone or pair it with the detachable self-tie harness – perfect for both private and public parties alike. Want more? If you love the look of Shibari but you’re not sure where to start, the Easy Shibari Cuffs are an ideal first foray into rope play.


For your pal with a penis

Tenga Spinner Penis Masturbator

The internal coil that's encased within the sleeve makes the Tenga Spinner curve and swerve all over your dick as you place it on and move it up and down. It makes a great gift because it A) feels really good and B) is packaged up nicely in a discreet tube.


For the one who likes the finer things

Le Wand Point

Pretty much every toy from Le Wand has a premium feel which is ideal for gifting. The unboxing experience is second to none and you’re guaranteed great quality. The Le Wand Point is their gorgeous handheld vibe which is ideal for grinding against. We also love the the Le Wand Petite, which is their rechargeable, smaller wand which can be used in lots of different ways both solo and with others and comes in a range of gorgeous colours.


If you’d like some advice about what toy to get then feel free to drop us a line at