I desired a strap-on harness for the first time since watching “Sense 8” a few years back. I voraciously observed this lesbian queer couple fucking like there was no tomorrow and when, after Nomi’s orgasm, Amanita unbuckled the harness and threw the whole ordeal on the floor, still dripping wet, my jaw dropped open and my whole perception of what a strap-on meant shifted.
My earliest sexual relationships were characterised by my internalized-anti-blackness. As many bullied, young black girls in predominantly white schools, upon hitting puberty my hormones led me to have crushes. Who were the eligible bachelors around me? White boys.
My liaisons with masturbation have been a good barometer for my feelings on my relationships and breakups over the past year, but it's also an activity that assists me in understanding my relationship with gender.
So, “what is mutual masturbation?”I hear you ask. Well, to put it plainly, it’s you and your partner, (or partners), masturbating in the same room, or if you’re tech-savvy, over video chat. It can involve touching each other, too, although doesn’t have to. Mutual masturbation is what you make of it and here’s how you can get the best out of it.
If you’ve ever wanted to reconnect with your body or try a new form of self-pleasure, practising tantra solo may be just the thing you need. In this article, we’ll give you 5 mind blowing tips for tantra self-love.
Clit-suckers, air-pressure toys, suction vibes – these little powerhouses have many names but they’re all designed to do one thing (and boy, do they do it well): stimulate your clit contact-free with pulsing waves of air.
V day affirmations guided by the stars. Many astrologers say it’s a farce that Valentine’s day is in the middle of Aquarius season. Find out why and discover your self love horoscope written for Self & More by astrologer Marissa Malik.
A reverberation of the sex positive feminist movement’s efforts; the vibrator is now a common commodity. You’ll even be up-sold a bullet or two on most fast-fashion sites. However, you’re still unlikely to spot aFleshlightorstrokerwhile you’re buying your fifth loungewear set this month, so have people with penises been excluded from this new brand of sex positivity?
Sexual desire and adventure don’t have to be thrown out the moment you become parents. I’m fully aware there are new moms (and pops) looking at the headline of this article thinking:What in the actual hell are you talking about, Gigi? I’m exhausted, there is a pile of laundry the size of Brazil outside my washer. What do you mean sex gets better AFTER kids?
