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Are your packages discreet?

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I want to include a gift message

Can I cancel my order?

My toy won’t turn on, what should I do?

My Satisfyer toy is faulty

Something is missing from my order, where is it?

How do I clean my toy?

Is this toy anal-safe?

Why are sex toy materials so important?

I lost my charger! How can I get a new one?

Is this toy waterproof?

How old do I have to be to buy products from Self & More?

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